If you were in a relationship when visiting the red light district would you still buy a lady in the window?
May 13, 2010 by
Filed under Red Light District
My boyfriend is going to amsterdam in a month, he says he bought the ticket when he was single, but he also says he just wants to goto the cafes. i wouldnt care if he experienced the culture and did it, i just want it to be a mutual conclusion. what do you think guys? is it to awkward to discus to your girlfriend? i dont get it.
Whats’ your idea of a “mutual conclusion” ? I think that means to end together. Most men you will meet have already sown their wild oats, your fiance will be more experienced when he gets back, what will you ask him?
I don’t think he would admit to you that he is thinking of having sex with a prostitute because that would be stupid on his part. To be honest, although the women are readily available out there if he goes to a coffee shop first chances are he’ll be too mashed up to think about getting one in and also not every man who goes to Amsterdam does get one, the majority don’t. If you trust him. leave it at that and rest assured that even if he does, they’ll make him wear a condom so at least he won’t bring anything nasty back with him. Bottom line is you’ll never know what he gets up to there so just relax and put it out of your mind and like I said if he’s going there to smoke, the weed is so strong he won’t want to do anything anyway! And yes it is an awkward subject to discuss with you girlfriend.
The answer to you question is no. I wouldn’t touch a prostitute, ever. But not everyone is like me. If you’re worried you should just express your concern about this to him. I’m sure he won’t tell you that he is planning on it, and if he does he won’t tell you either. But if you talk to him about it at least he will think twice before he does. I honestly don’t know why anyone would ever get with a prostitute though, sick.
Yes I would
I am not like Kevin. I would go with one of the window beauties, given half a chance. In fact, I have never failed to enjoy two or three prostitutes a night everytime I’m in Amsterdam. Its like going to Disney land, except the rides are so much more fun.
You should think of his needs. By going to a prostitute, he’s ditching you. You two will still have that emotional connection that you cannot develop with a prostitute. Most guys are uncomfortable having the real kinky sex or acting out their fantacies with their partners. Quite often their pratners will say its dirty or “are you out of your mind”. Prostitutes, however, are happy to oblige for a fee.
Don’t look at prostitutes as being dirty, or people who frequent prostitutes as perverts. Visiting a prostitute is no different to say going to a dentist or to the manicurist. You go there for a service, except that with prostitutes, its to relieve the sexual tension and to release your load.
My advise is chill and give him a break. You will find that your relationship will improve after this as his performance in bed improves. So it is a win win situation. I don’t know why so many women get upset when their partners visit prostitutes.
With my girlfriend, I make it clear to her that my frequenting prostitutes is a right I insist on having. I have been frequenting prostitutes since I was 14 and have no desire to stop. If my gf wants to remain in a relationship with me, then this is one condition that I insist on. So for two days a week (Tue and Thu) and when she has her periods, I get my sex at the local brothels.