Opening the communication lines can make for a much better sex life. When a partner takes you into their confidence and shares what they like or dislike when it comes to sex, it can only lead to a more intimate relationship. Good communication between couples is always the key to a healthy sexual relationship.

 Men especially may feel somewhere between threatened and excited when they are first confronted with the idea of sex toys in the bedroom. They may feel some what intimidated by them and feel they are unwelcome competition. They may even feel they would be taking their place in bed. Communication is a must for you to make him understand that his part in the bedroom is just as important as ever. Toys are not competition but will only aid in a more intense orgasm for you both when used in conjunction with your normal love making.

Masturbation together using sex toys can spice things up. Doing this can teach both of you the likes and dislikes of your partner, what feels best, how hard, or how fast to stimulate certain areas.  Watching your partner pleasure themselves can teach you a variety of things that can help you to be a better lover. This type of voyeurism may not be for every one, but for those that are open enough with their spouse or partner, and can enjoy using sex toys with each other in this way can experience a whole new level of pleasure.

In the past it was a common myth that sex toys were used by perverts and people with no partner. In today’s society it has become much easier to obtain sex toys than in the past. The days of a “secret” back room, hidden away at the video or book store, that left every one sneaking in to avoid being thought of as a weirdo or pervert, has been replaced by shopping online from the privacy of home. This has made it much easier for everyone to shop in private and pick the toy that they feel would be best suited for what they want, with out the fear that anyone will know.

This ability to shop in the privacy of your own home has given people, that years ago wouldn’t have even considered using a sex toys, the opportunity to explore their body in ways they never could before. More people today have and use sex toys than in the past. The industry has continued to grow bigger each year. Why? People are buying and using sex toys. People like yourself and probably many people you know are using sex toys. The sex-toy market brings in between $8-12 billion each year in the US alone.

So if you’re hiding a sex toy away from your partner, chances are, they just might have one hidden as well since sex toys have become so easy to get and everyone is trying them out. So bring the subject up and explore the idea with your partner. Tell them that maybe you should give it a try together. Here is an ice breaker to get things going on the right track.

Did you know you can buy sex toys at your local drug store? Not a huge selection by any means, but sex toys just the same. Follow this link to see for yourself how main stream sex toys have become.  (your local drug store)  

Now that you have an easy way to bring up sex toys by simply saying you ran across these at your local drug store, why not suggest to your partner maybe you should see what the buzz is all about and visit our store with your partner and shop our huge selection to see what you and your partner might like to try with each other.

Chances are you have both thought about it and kept it to yourself. Maybe you’ve had fantasies of double penetration   but you just don’t want to chance a threesome. Maybe you’d like to try prostate massage   and never knew how to bring up the subject for fear of sounding gay. Studies show that prostate massage is not only normal for heterosexual men but healthy for your prostate to reduce the risks of cancer.

Just seeing a toy designed for a particular type simulation at our store may be all it will take to open the line of communication and take your sexual relationship to the next level.

Friday night 5.00PM, the day’s work at the store was a particularly long and drawn out, and the only thing that you could think of all day in the shop was how and what method you would use for the evening’s extracurricular activities. First this…, then that… BIG MISTAKE! The anticipation of having sex seems even more enjoyable than doing the deed itself. This is what often happens, playing out the scenario in your head over and over again and when you finally do meet up you are just bursting for it; a speed-dial boink of ultrasonic proportions. An amazing 30 seconds-good night! Take gourmet over gourmand for example, you are starved-the saliva glands work overtime-you wolf it down-appetite fed-game over. Satisfying? I think not. My method is a simple store of gourmet cooking, slow things down and prepare. Try and concentrate on something else during the day-it’s hard J I know but well worth it. Preparation for sex is most important, have a good shower or a bath and then put on your sex outfit, if you don’t have an outfit buy one; check out the online range with various sex toy stores and shops. My personal favourite for women is a skin tight black fishnet suit (Linda) bare buttocks with a black g-string (T-back) or perhaps a peek A boo suit which can be equally stunning. Shop around. What’s in store for men is something simple, a penis strap along with briefs with a zipper or for the even more adventurous the very luring leather corset cuffs. As for other sex toys and accessories available at online shops and stores, the all important sensual oils such as clitoral stimulating gel and bull power delay gel for men, (especially useful for the first shag of the evening) and not forgetting a vibrator or dildo to help with that extra stimulation for the ladies. OK, I’m sorry if I have offended some of you; I’m just trying to point out to you that sex toys and sex shops and stores are all so common nowadays and use of which are well accepted in society today. So let’s not be shy here, with the same partner (appx. 200 times)-sex can and will become stagnant after a time and according to scientists it is one of the biggest reasons why some marriages/relationships are liable to fail, besides it’s all in the name of pleasure isn’t it? I digress, so how you use your toys is of course, entirely up to you. Men enjoy being teased a while, for example oral sex outside of the briefs/boxers to start. Women would prefer you work from the top, (a long kiss for example), then working your way down. Use of the vibrator should be necessary only after (or before) you have exhausted tongue and finger stimulation. It might be wise to apply the gels just before full coitus, but some don’t mind the taste. If you are in need of a heads-up here, try using your browsing powers and check out the sex toy shops, stores or websites, like the online shop at dreamworld69. You will not believe the range of gear they have.

P.S., my humble advice is a mere tip of the iceberg when it comes to kama sutra, and besides everybody works differently don’t they?

There are certain sex positions that are best to achieve clitoral orgasms. Apart from these positions the other way is to use sex toys to achieve erotic stimulations.

More suction less vibration.

The single opening causes the suction to be slightly stronger and the airflow is not as intense. You will achieve a longer orgasm due to the reduced airflow. We suggest that you use The Vortex Vibrations Introducer initially to prolong the build up of your orgasm. It also tends to create a longer, or what we call a ‘rolling’ orgasm due to the reduced airflow. Some women have experienced a single orgasm lasting more than a minute.

Missionary position – if you are on your back you are able to stimulize with your clitoris yourself.

* Girl on top – your partner is able to play with you, or you are able to play with yourself. The other thing about being on top is you can control where you want his penis, and if you experiment you can play around with your positioning so you can get clitoral stimulation as well from the thrusts of the penis. Lean forward during sex, see if you can get his penis to rub on your clitoris as well.

* Sex on the side – this is another option to experiment with so either you or your partner can rub your clitoris.

* Apart from positions, the other option is experimenting with sex toys, and this can sometimes be the easier option as using sex

toys allows both of your hands to be free. These sex vibrators from the bullets and eggs sections are great. The vibrating bullet rests on the clitoris during sex and either one of you can also hold it in place.

The other great option is cock rings that have a vibrating bullet, these are found in the sex toys for couples section.Either person can play with the clitoris during sex. Experiment with different positions, and experiment with who does the playing and fondling, and it if you like being rubbed, or fondled or having heavy or light touches. For most women the clitoris is the most sensitive part of the body, so having it stimulated during sex is thoroughly amazing. Don’t give up if it a clitorial orgasm during sex doesn’t happen the first time…a good excuse to keep practising! ead of the competition- and the only vibrator to consider when buying one.

There are certain sex positions that are best to achieve clitoral orgasms. Apart from these positions the other way is to use sex toys to achieve erotic stimulations.

More suction less vibration.

The single opening causes the suction to be slightly stronger and the airflow is not as intense. You will achieve a longer orgasm due to the reduced airflow. We suggest that you use The Vortex Vibrations Introducer initially to prolong the build up of your orgasm. It also tends to create a longer, or what we call a ‘rolling’ orgasm due to the reduced airflow. Some women have experienced a single orgasm lasting more than a minute.

Missionary position – if you are on your back you are able to stimulize with your clitoris yourself.

* Girl on top – your partner is able to play with you, or you are able to play with yourself. The other thing about being on top is you can control where you want his penis, and if you experiment you can play around with your positioning so you can get clitoral stimulation as well from the thrusts of the penis. Lean forward during sex, see if you can get his penis to rub on your clitoris as well.

* Sex on the side – this is another option to experiment with so either you or your partner can rub your clitoris.

* Apart from positions, the other option is experimenting with sex toys, and this can sometimes be the easier option as using sex

toys allows both of your hands to be free. These sex vibrators from the bullets and eggs sections are great. The vibrating bullet rests on the clitoris during sex and either one of you can also hold it in place.

The other great option is cock rings that have a vibrating bullet, these are found in the sex toys for couples section.Either person can play with the clitoris during sex. Experiment with different positions, and experiment with who does the playing and fondling, and it if you like being rubbed, or fondled or having heavy or light touches. For most women the clitoris is the most sensitive part of the body, so having it stimulated during sex is thoroughly amazing. Don’t give up if it a clitorial orgasm during sex doesn’t happen the first time…a good excuse to keep practising! ead of the competition- and the only vibrator to consider when buying one.

This is the second article in the series: O peoples, O earth! Hear and listen in the Bible versus the Quran (2).

The Bible says: Hear, O peoples, all of you, all of them!  Listen, O earth:

All this is because the transgression of Jacob and because of the sins of the house of Israel.  But what are all this? God is coming out of his place; He will come down and tread upon the high places of the earth and the mountains will melt under the LORD God Love.   Then God Love will make Samaria a heap of ruins and will pour her stones down into the valley and will lay bare her foundations. Samaria’s idols will be smashed, all of her earnings will be burned with fire and all of her images I will make desolate, for she collected them from a harlot’s earnings, And to the earnings of a harlot they will return.

Nevertheless, the Lord God said: What the high places of Judah? Is it not Jerusalem? According to the available Biblical maps; NO, Judah’s high place is Not Jerusalem.  This is a very important issue that needs to be studied very carefully.  It is one of two possibilities; either God has no idea about the geographical location of Judah’s high place or those who drew the Biblical maps forged them.

In addition, God Love said that He is coming out of his place; He will come down and tread upon the high places of the earth and the mountains will melt under Him because of the sins of the house of Israel.

In the Quran, there is a lot of sins committed by the children of Israel but

All of their sins did not need all of these procedures from Allah.

Moreover, what is the big deal for all of these stuffs that made the Lord God to come down etc. and to address his word to all the earth?

Most of the human beings have no idea about Samaria or Judea and hence they are not interested to their outcome.

On the other hand, Allah addresses the following message to mankind.

Allah says:

O people! Remember Allah’s grace towards you.  Is there any god, other than Allah who provides you from the sky and from the earth? There is no God save Him.

So how then do you deviate?

And if they deny you, O Muhammad, verily other messengers before you were denied, so be steadfast; and to Allah all matters are returned, in the Hereafter, when He will requite the deniers and grant victory to the messengers.

O mankind! Indeed Allah’s promise, of resurrection is true. So do not let the life of this world deceive you, and do not let Satan, deceive you concerning Allah

Truly Satan is an enemy to you. So treat him as an enemy, by being obedient to Allah and do not obey him. His followers will be the inhabitants of the hell, the fierce Fire.

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O peoples, O earth! Hear and listen in the Bible (2)

Micah 1:5-7

New International Version

5 All this is because of Jacob’s transgression, because of the sins of the house of Israel. What is Jacob’s transgression? Is it not Samaria? What is Judah’s high place? Is it not Jerusalem?

6 “Therefore I will make Samaria a heap of rubble, a place for planting vineyards. I will pour her stones into the valley and lay bare her foundations.

7 All her idols will be broken to pieces; all her temple gifts will be burned with fire; I will destroy all her images. Since she gathered her gifts from the wages of prostitutes, as the wages of prostitutes they will again be used.”

New American Standard Bible

5All this is for the rebellion of Jacob

What is the rebellion of Jacob? Is it not Samaria? What is the high place of Judah?

6For I will make Samaria a heap of ruins in the open country, Planting places for a vineyard I will pour her stones down into the valley And will lay bare her foundations.

7All of her idols will be smashed, All of her earnings will be burned with fire And all of her images I will make desolate, For she collected them from a harlot’s earnings, And to the earnings of a harlot they will return.

English Standard Version

5All this is for the transgression of Jacob and for the sins of the house of Israel. What is the transgression of Jacob? Is it not Samaria? And what is the high place of Judah? Is it not Jerusalem?

6Therefore I will make Samaria a heap in the open country, a place for planting vineyards, and I will pour down her stones into the valley and uncover her foundations.

7All her carved images shall be beaten to pieces, all her wages shall be burned with fire, and all her idols I will lay waste, for from the fee of a prostitute she gathered them, and to the fee of a prostitute they shall return.

King James Version

5For the transgression of Jacob is all this, and for the sins of the house of Israel. What is the transgression of Jacob? is it not Samaria? and what are the high places of Judah? are they not Jerusalem?

6Therefore I will make Samaria as an heap of the field, and as plantings of a vineyard: and I will pour down the stones thereof into the valley, and I will discover the foundations thereof.

7And all the graven images thereof shall be beaten to pieces, and all the hires thereof shall be burned with the fire, and all the idols thereof will I lay desolate: for she gathered it of the hire of an harlot, and they shall return to the hire of an harlot.

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O peoples, O earth! Hear and listen in the Quran (2)

Verses 35:3-6 give the message of Allah to mankind.

The meaning of these verses:

Verse 35:3

O people! Remember Allah’s grace towards you, in the form of rain, provision and well-being!  Is there any creator, any god, other than Allah who provides you from the sky, rain, and from the earth, vegetation? There is no God save Him who provides you. Whither then are you turned, from whence do you lie and claim that your deities provide for you?

So how then do you deviate? How are you turned away from affirming His Oneness when you already affirm that He is the Creator and the Provider?

Verse 35:4

And if they deny you, O Muhammad, with regard to your coming with the message of Allah’s Oneness, resurrection, reckoning and punishment, verily other messengers before you were denied, in this respect, so be steadfast as they were steadfast; and to Allah all matters are returned, in the Hereafter, when He will requite the deniers and grant victory to the messengers.

Verse 35:5

O mankind! Indeed Allah’s promise, of resurrection and of other issues mentioned in the Quran, is true. So do not let the life of this world deceive you, from believing in all of that, and do not let the Deceiver, Satan, deceive you concerning Allah, on account of His forbearance and respiting of sinners in this life.

Verse 35:6

Truly Satan is an enemy to you. So treat him as an enemy, by being obedient to Allah and do not obey him; he only summons his faction, his followers in disbelief, so that they may be among the inhabitants of the hell, the fierce Fire.

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Verses 35:3-6 in four different translations:

Verse 35:3

QARIB: people, remember the blessings of Allah to you. Except for Allah, is there any other creator who provides for you out of heaven and earth? There is no god except he. Where then do you turn?

SHAKIR: o men! call to mind the favor of Allah on you; is there any creator besides Allah who gives you sustenance from the heaven and the earth? there is no god but he; whence are you then turned away?

PICKTHAL: o mankind! Remember Allah’s grace toward you! is there any creator other than Allah who provideth for you from the sky and the earth? there is no Allah save him. whither then are ye turned?

YUSUFALI: o men! Call to mind the grace of Allah unto you! is there a creator, other than Allah, to give you sustenance from heaven or earth? there is no god but he: how then are ye deluded away from the truth?

Verse 35:4

QARIB: if they belie you, other messengers have been belied before you. to Allah all matters are returned.

SHAKIR: and if they call you a liar, truly messengers before you were called liars, and to Allah are all affairs returned

PICKTHAL: and if they deny thee, (O Muhammad), messengers (of Allah) were denied before thee. unto Allah all things are brought back.

YUSUFALI: and if they reject thee, so were messengers rejected before thee: to Allah back for decision all affairs.

Verse 35:5

QARIB: people, the promise of Allah is true, so do not let this present life delude you, and do not let the deluder (Satan) deludes you about Allah.

SHAKIR: O men! Surely the promise of Allah is true, therefore let not the life of this world deceive you, and let not the archdeceiver deceive you respecting Allah

PICKTHAL: O mankind! Lo! The promise of Allah is true. so let not the life of the world beguile you, and let not the (avowed) beguiler beguile you with regard to Allah.

YUSUFALI: O men! Certainly the promise of Allah is true. let not then this present life deceive you, nor let the chief deceiver deceive you about Allah.

Verse 35:6

QARIB: Satan is indeed your enemy; therefore take him for an enemy. he calls his party so that they will become the companions of the blaze.

SHAKIR: surely the shaitan is your enemy, so take him for an enemy; he only invites his party that they may be inmates of the burning

PICKTHAL: lo! The devil is an enemy for you, so treat him as an enemy. He only summoneth his faction to be owners of the flaming fire.

YUSUFALI: verily Satan is an enemy to you: so treat him as an enemy. He only invites his adherents, which they may become companions of the blazing fire.

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