Women sexuality has always been an enigma. In a recent research “Why Women Have Sex”by Cindy Meston and David Buss has highlighted 200 reasons as to why women have sexual intercourse. The research conclusively proves that women do not want sex, for sexual pleasure only. There are various other things attached to it. On the other hand men want sex for sexual pleasure only.

This biological difference between men and women resulted in control of a man desire by women’s monopoly, as only a woman can satisfy the sexual desire of a man. The research itself shows that 10% of the women agreed to have sex for material benefits- the authors revealed,

“The authors revealed that one in ten women admitted having sexual intercourse in return for presents, or lavish meals. Responses included “he bought me a nice dinner” or “he spent a lot of money on me early on”, “he gave me gifts early on” and “he showed me he had an extravagant lifestyle”

Human wants are article of exchange. Be it food, clothes, knowledge, intelligence- whatever satisfies human wants. Sex is also a natural human want, although may be present only in men. But society takes care of human wants of different classes- unfortunately the state and society never took care of basic man’s desire of sex. On the other hand the law has made prostitution illegal and thereby blocking the legal and acceptable way to trade services to satisfy human want.

It is impossible to eliminate prostitution. Sex is a valid men’s need- there is demand for that. When demand is there, supply will be created- legally or illegally. If the supply is created legally, it is a valid business like any other; and if the supply is created illegally, it will result in exploitation of people in that trade. Every society has understood this, and therefore there are demands for legalization of prostitution.

There is moral and ethical issues related to sex trade. Such issues have arisen due to treating sex as something sacrosanct. There is no legal or rational basis of treating sex sacrosanct. I feel that human labour, human intelligence, power to heal are much more sacrosanct than mundane sex- if human society can trade in those things, there is no reason to prohibit trade in sex.

Sex is just like any other natural activity- eating, sleeping, breathing. The way a human want food, and when he gets it feel happy- in the same way, a man want sex, and feel happy when he gets it. Yes if food supply is reduced, say in famine times- human being will be very happy if they get food in that time. Same goes for sex- as various laws has reduced supply of sex, it has become something like an enigma. Such laws and social practices has reduced men to sexual slavery.   
These restrictions on sex has resulted in making men guilty for wanting sex, and making them a sex slave based on this very natural desire. To stop this sexual slavery of men, legalization of sex trade is required.

Do not over look the fantastic health benefits, one gains from an active and vibrant sex life. Stress is the biggest negative health factor most of us have to deal with, and there is no better way to reduce your stress levels that by having a great orgasm, or two, or three. Well you see what I mean, we are only held back by our own foolish inhibitions.

I am not here to argue that adult products and toys are essential for good sex. Holding hands, cuddling or enjoying a romantic candlelight dinner can be just as arousing and stimulating, however sex toys can create a more erotic and adventurous experience. Adults like using sex toys for sex play as a way to discover and explore intimacy and well as techniques and fantasies that would be impossible to accomplish as a monogamous couple.

Adult products used to enhance your sexual experience can range through a wide variety of items from costumes and accessories for role play, to appliances like dildos and the famous anal vibrator. It is healthy to fantasize about your sexual experiences. Just because you have a sex fantasy, does not mean you are or will be unfaithful to your partner. To the contrary, this is perhaps the strongest way to prevent infidelity. With the assistance of adult sex toys and adult products you or your partner can become another person or persons, depending on what your fantasies are. All without leaving the safety and privacy of your own bedroom, or kitchen again depending on your personal fantasy.

Without a doubt the best part of incorporating adult products, adult sex toys, fantasy costumes or anal vibrators is that you and your partner are in total control of the experience. You can make it as active, or as mild, as tame or as raunchy as you like. And no one else has to know.

There are many good and valid reasons to start using adult sex toys and adult products, many more than than would be against using them. They can help restore that sensuous spontaneity and increase the intimacy to an otherwise stall relationship. If you don’t think your partner is giving you enough attention, serve them the next meal wearing a French maid costume and a pair of crotch less panties. If you do not get to the full level of sexual pleasure that you would like to, next time show your partner how to take you to exactly where you want, no I say need to be taken to achieve the level of please you desire. Drop your inhibitions and get off on one another, get each other off and get yourself off.